Call it trust issues if you want, but in my opinion it's nearly impossible for a girl and a boy to really be friends. Now considering the fact that my best friends are boys I confess I am a bit of a hypocrite. But every time a girl and a boy reach a certain point of intimacy they are face with the same problem. The issue of attraction. I have had exactly two friendships with boys that never contained any point of uncertainty (one of those boys is my best friend but he is very VERY gay). You can be the best if friends but when that day comes where one of you feels more than the other, tread carefully. It's a horrible day when you realize you've lost a friend because you couldn't love him the way he wanted you to. My advice, confront the situation. Leading them on will only end in resentment. If you tell them as soon as possible, keep them from hoping, you might have a chance. But nothing feels worse than hurting someone you love, because they want more from you than you can give them.
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